You can use a natural sponge in your tank, but there are some things to keep in mind. You need to be sure that it is really clean. I;d recommend soaking it in several changes of water and rinsing it out well each time. The most long lasting are known as wool sponges. Naturally this make them the most expensive.
Sponges can become dirt traps, so…[Read more]
So I made a post on here before about my sexual insecurities. Since then I’ve gotten better for sure, I’ve found a girlfriend and we’re planning to meet up (LDR) in about 3 months time and have our first time’s together at some point then. But I’ve still been getting a lot of anxiety about how it’s going to go. To be clear I have talked about this…[Read more]
Hi @worried-dude, sorry it’s taken so long for me to respond to you! This is really common question people ask me! First of all STIs transmitted through fingering might be risky if there’s mutual masturbation & lots of precum, ejaculate or vaginal secretions that’s exchanged between partners. Often these body fluids are used as lubricant & if sha…[Read more]
Long story short, I have messed up despite my determination to abstain, I was engaged in a massage therapy session with an erotic masseuse. One thing led to the other and things got spicy. The only genital contacts I had was me kissing her body (I understand this to be risk free), and using my fingers to to stimulate her clitoris area. Granted my…[Read more]