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I’m reading the Wind Up Bird Chronicle by Haruki Murakami right now. There’s plenty of unexpected twists driving the plot which I’m really enjoying, but a lot of the secondary characters (particularly women) are a little one dimensional, which takes away from things a little bit.

Next on my list is Minority Report by Philip K. Dick. I LOVE sci-fi!

I’m so happy you felt that way after coming out to your boyfriend @stephaniaaaah! That’s so wonderful!

That nagging voice is just the worse @GoldenRose. It’s funny – my nagging voice was always around when I was alone and thinking about how I felt. I was under zero pressure to question my sexuality, but just sort of had…the feeling I guess that…[Read more]

Jumped on to say the same as champagnepapi – I looooove kissing! And I could kiss for hours.

I’m also a big fan of a massage as a way of leading into things.

@tea I’d definitely recommend a plug, they can be really fun! They’re definitely my favourite

@stephaniaaah Ahhh I got the warm fuzzies reading this thread! I’m so happy for you and the fact that you feel more empowered in your sexuality! You have my support always. x

It’s great to hear you’re having a good time with your partner @SpookyFries!

I’m gonna go a bit old school and say I absolutely love making out – I could do it for a long time without getting tired of it, so much fun.

Agree @goldenrose :))

Agree @goldenrose :))

@goldenrose I just looked back at your first post and yes sounds like you’ve come such a long way! It’s so great that our voices are here right now and on platforms like TikTok to share the struggle. Just in the last few days I’ve become so much more positive about my sexuality knowing that others have had the same experience.

Oh that’s so good to hear that you are having a positive experience @SpookyFries! I think it’s important to talk about how penetration is not essential for you and your partner to feel connected and to have sex.

Personally, I can’t reach orgasm through penetration alone so stimulation through oral and use of hands is important for me 🙂

I love this post so much!

I really resonate with what you are saying @stephaniaaaah and @aunt_flo, especially where you said: “I’m actually a bit afraid of being confident in my sexuality, because of the nagging feeling in the back of my head that asks if I don’t actually like girls, because I’ve never dated a woman.”

I feel like it is clear…[Read more]

Oh that is such a good analogy @aunt_flo!

Thanks so much for sharing @stephaniaaaah I completely understand where you are coming from and can definitely relate (I’ll jump on the other post and elaborate from my previous reply in that thread :))

I’m sure it would have been hard to come to that realisation as I feel like there is a lot of…[Read more]

Awesome! @trine Let us know what toy you end up picking and what you think of it 🙂

@goldenrose Wow that sounds fascinating!

I’ve been reading Fabric of The Cosmos by Brian Greene. It’s a really good introductory book to a lot of different physics concepts. I’ve really been enjoying it as he spends a lot of time explaining one single concept and the significance of the concept which has been quite refreshing in comparison to…[Read more]

100% love this @aunt_flo and think that I am experiencing many of the same thought you did in that ‘being silly’ or ‘attention seeking’

The reality is like you say is that when I came out to my boyfriend he was like that’s rad, I am happy for you and nothing changes for us and it felt SO DAMN RIGHT AND GOOD AND MADE SENSE!!! Just to vocalise it…[Read more]

I think there’s always going to be people who are a bit ignorant, or who think they know your sexuality better than you do, @stephaniaaaah. It sucks that their opinion can hurt so much, even though it’s your sexuality, and you know yourself best!

I was scared for quite a while that people would think I was being silly, or seeking attention by com…[Read more]

hi everyone !!

I’m ren and I go by they/them

Fave song atm

My favourite song at the moment would have to be GIRL by DAOKO <3

Winter or summer?

I love winter !! it’s my favourite season as it’s an excuse to snuggle up and play video games !!

How would you survive the zombie apocalypse?

me and my bestfriend have a plan to meet in the blue…[Read more]