August 17, 2017 at 9:56 am
DeftRat
Participant
@jackh I’ve done this quite a bit, by myself and with partners. It is like everyone has said, bringing yourself close to climax and then stopping. Sometimes (I can only speak from a male point of view) it also involves bringing yourself so close to climax that you ejaculate and don’t orgasm or orgasm and don’t ejaculate. Can be quite an intense experience, especially if someone else is edging you.
@Deftrat very interesting, I’ve stopped watching porn and masterbating for almost 2 years following the nofap lifestyle.
I’ve experienced what you are describing. My interests came about because I have alot of sexual energy and recently been trying other methods through self research on tantra that to reach orgasm or orgasm with ejaculating. Although Im very limited on knowledge and just began practising.
Just the last 2 months, I dont use my hands, I position myself like in a praying position where my bottom is pressed to my calves and heels on the floor. And do slow gradual thrusting. Its hard to explain. But after a couple minutes or hour sexual energy surges and ejaculate but no orgasm, although can go to the O when I please. This whole thing was discovered through the intention of focusing on the pleasure and that using hands is forbidden.
Do you know any research or books on what understandings have been discovered on this?