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Had to look up the term of a penis cramp and what it consists of and I can confirm it’s totally a thing. Had it happen a few times but never to the point where I had burst a blood vessel down there.
All my injuries related to sex are from silly things like slipping over whilst trying to do it in the shower etc.

Holy moly accidental anal. I had…[Read more]

Yeah I feel that is reason enough to warrant wanting to stop. It’s completely fine and normal to stop if you say you’re not feeling it anymore at any time.

For me intimacy is so much more about making my partner feel good and comfortable. If they aren’t into it at the time I would absolutely want them to tell me that.

@tea I think you hit the nail on the head there. Really respecting the other persons boundaries and going in without out any expectations is huge consideration.

My friend thanks you guys because he been keeping up to date with this thread and has gone out and done pretty much exactly what you experienced at the bookshop @tea. He has gotten a…[Read more]

@tea No I have never heard of her. I’ll have to check her out. Can you recommend any specific interviews?

@tea Haha I agree. As long as it doesn’t stop you from doing other things in your life there isn’t really a definitive limit to it.

Gosh these are really surprising. They are much higher than I would have thought. I find it super crazy when you put these numbers in perspective, for example, that statistically speaking that one of my four brothers would believe that saying about revenge porn. It’s really staggering and quite shocking actually.

In terms of how we change…[Read more]

Totally agree with you @tea. I don’t think it’s an effective way to prevent pregnancy and does nothing when trying to prevent the spread of STI’s. I’ve actually heard it being called the pull and pray method which is probably more accurate.

Despite this I have used this method a few times and continue to do so when needed. I never feel…[Read more]

So my friend said pretty much all the typical things like you mentioned before @tea. Sorry I can’t be more help but what he said was make sure its cleaned out the best you can before, use lotsssss of lube, start slow and small (maybe a finger and gradually move up in size as it becomes more comfortable.) And I guess eventually it stretches out a…[Read more]

Found this video the other day about weird methods of contraception throughout history. Some are pretty crazy and weird. Makes me really appreciate the options that we have now haha!

I’m quite intrigued too. I’ve got no experience here but my mate has a few lady friends that ask for anal quite regularly. I will get in touch with him and get back to you on this one!

I think you guys raised a good point about the social impacts it may have. I’ve chatted to a bunch of my mates over the last few days about this and they’ve said if anything its affected socially. A lot of them found that when they thought they were doing it too much they felt much more anti-social and felt far less incentive to try to meet people…[Read more]

I went with Durex Fetherlite condoms. Way different to the condoms I’ve tried previously. Liking them so far. I’ll have to Ansell Skyn condoms though if you both recommend them.

@stephaniaaaah @earthmama The first condom I ever saw or touched was a vibrating one. I was too young to know what condoms were at the time and I was tricked into holding…[Read more]

@nurse_nettie Damn I wish I had known this before. Thanks for the information! I will definitely go to a bulk billing clinic next time and save my money! haha

@mintmilano Agreed. I think it’s best to have that assurance. It may be a little stressful getting tested but I think knowing for sure is far more important and gratifying.

@superstarv I wouldn’t fret too much. Smart decision to go get tested I think. Like MintMilano said chances are that if your partner is fine then probably you’re okay too but…[Read more]

@aunt_flo I didn’t want to pry too much so I’m not entirely sure. However, I think she mentioned that she had issues with hormone birth control and they didn’t like condoms.

@nurse_nettie Wow! I kind of laughed off this method when I heard about it. Amazed that there is legitimacy to this method.

I don’t think I would be organised enough to…[Read more]

I really like the idea of body neutrality and how it shifts the focus away from appearance. However, I feel like it is so much harder to appreciate something that isn’t too visible like our body processes. Also Im so normalised to those things that our body does that I kind of take it for granted.

I think there has to be a place for both body…[Read more]