Nurse_Nettie

Hi @Frankie, thanks for your question! Syphilis testing is a little tricky to explain in writing. It’ll be great if you could call the NSW Sexual Health Infolink on 1800 451 624 to discuss your concerns. I’ve received your questions via Nurse Nettie email and will answer to you that way.

Hi @Frankie, thanks for your question! Syphilis testing is a little tricky to explain, as it can be complicated and depends a lot on a person’s individual health history. If you want more specific info about syphilis testing you can call 1800 451 624 between 9am-5.30pm Monday to Friday to talk with a sexual health nurse (like me). It’s c…[Read more]

Thanks for your question @Frankie. I can see that you emailed me your question too. I’ve replied to your email with some information, so please check your inbox. If you want more info you can call 1800 451 624 between 9am-5.30pm Monday to Friday to talk with a sexual health nurse (like me). It’s confidential & free if you call from a landline.

Hi @electric-memes and thanks for your honesty in sharing your thoughts about what you desire intimately & sexually.
You would make a good person for someone to have sex with because…
1. It sounds like you know what you like & dont like and are willing to talk about that.
2. You’re planning to take your time to get to know someone & develop…[Read more]

Thanks for sharing your story @tina993. I’ve replied on the other thread where you shared it too, but I’ll copy my answer here as well.

I’m so glad to hear you finally found the help and support you needed. Many people suffer through vaginismus without having access to treatment. Good information about the condition and how it’s treated can be…[Read more]

Thanks for sharing your story @tina993. I’m so glad to hear you finally found the help and support you needed. Many people suffer through vaginismus without having access to treatment. Good information about the condition and how it’s treated can be found here. There are also other reasons people may experience pain during sex, so it’s always…[Read more]

Hey @champagnepapi interesting topic. Vaginismus can be a real struggle for people. The best place to reach out for help is a GP who can refer to a sexual Health specialist and a sex therapist. In our Sexual Health Clinics we are more focus on STIs and BBVs.

Thanks for bringing up this topic @tea. It’s not always easy to recognise the signs of a toxic relationship, especially if you don’t have much to compare it to The Line is a great place to find more information about health vs unhealthy relationships.

Hi @mapho, I’m glad you’ve reached out. You’re describing such a common experience. I get lots of messages from young people stressed out about ejaculating ‘too soon.’ In fact, I’ve written all about it here and here.

You might be surprised to know that the average time from penetration to ejaculation for most people is only a few minutes anyway.…[Read more]

Hi @tea, yes, you can get pimples anywhere you have skin. Ingrown hairs are also common, especially for those who wax or shave. I’ve written a bit more about how to look after your skin here here. You can also check out some of the most common causes of lumps, bumps & itching here. When in doubt, it’s always best to visit a doctor or your local…[Read more]

Hi @tea, it’s great that you’ve already had an ultrasound, but if the pain has continued it’s important to go back to the doctor. I can’t say what’s causing your pain, but your doctor may assume that’s it’s no longer a problem if you don’t return. Endometriosis is a common cause of pelvic pain and people often suffer symptoms for a long time…[Read more]

Hi @sparklingjedi,

Sounds like there’s been a lot going on for you health wise lately- and thanks for posting your situation despite your embarrassment.

Recovery from a hysterectomy involves more than the physical recovery. It can take time to emotionally and mentally adjust to the loss of your uterus and the ability to have a child (even at…[Read more]

Hey @worriedboysure You have no reason to worry 🙂 The Pill works every day, even during the 7 day break (or sugar pills). But even if she hadn’t been on the Pill, the risk here would be pretty low. Almost all pregnancies happen from penis-in-vagina sex. It’s great that you’re talking about contraception with your partner and looking for the right info.

Hey @clovergirl, thanks for bringing this up. As Nurse Nettie, I hear from lots of young people who are worried about whether their vaginal fluid is normal or not. The ‘wetness’ you’re describing is a sign your vagina is self-lubricating in response to being turned-on. Lubrication decreases friction and is an important part of what makes sex feel…[Read more]

@alwaysontheline It’s great that you’ve brought it up with your psychiatrist and ruled out the meds as an issue.

Most likely, there isn’t any physical problem. It takes time for most people to learn how to reach orgasm with a partner. Finishing by masturbating with your girlfriend is quite common and normal. If you want to orgasm with her other…[Read more]

Hi @alwaysontheline, Nurse Nettie here. What you’ve described is really common. Despite expectations, there’s lots of people don’t always reach orgasm during sex, yet still experience pleasure. You’re right, there could be physical causes like hormones & medical conditions that affect the nerves, blood circulation & medications that may affec…[Read more]

@aunt_flo yeah, female/internal condoms definitely aren’t as widely available as traditional condoms. Most people probably buy them online or from Family Planning NSW clinics. Some women’s health clinics and pharmacies also have them though.

Hi @yogigirl, that’s a good question. The difference when you’ve had implants is knowing where the edges of the implants are so you can focus on your actual breast tissue. Your surgeon is the best resource for helping you to feel where this is, but any doctor can probably help guide you if you’re not sure.

Hi @curiousss, this a great question. The answer is, yes! You can find guidelines about how to use it for anal sex here.

Thanks for updating us, @yogigirl. It’s empowering to know what was causing your symptoms. It means you can make informed choices about your health now.
And @curiousss, I’m so glad to know that you found the Jean Hailes resources helpful too.