It feels like life has been returning to normal in slow motion with restrictions being slowly lifted but also not really… I went out to the pub last week and it has been so strange having to sit at the same table the whole time.…[Read more]
I had this experience the other night where I had to really convince my sexual partner to wear a condom.
He started going on and on about how it was uncomfortable and too tight, and this and that. I had to repeatedly ask (3 times) before he reluctantly did it. After that we got on with it and it was fine…
But I’m wondering. What do you do if…[Read more]
PotPlant replied to the topic Fun (non-penetrative) sexual activities to do with your sexual partner/s? in the forum Sex & Relationships 3 weeks, 3 days ago
Loving this thread! Definitely think that these sorts of activities can be super enjoyable and facilitate a different sort of intimacy with your sexual partners.
I feel like by having this broader view of sex as not just penetration, we can still enjoy ourselves even when we might not have the energy to go as far with it as we usually would!
PotPlant replied to the topic I’m still a virgin but sorta feel like an odd one out! 😅 in the forum Sex & Relationships 3 weeks, 3 days ago
Just speaking from personal experience, I don’t think think it’s worthwhile just having sex with anyone just for the sake of not being a virgin. When I was younger I did that and it was not an enjoyable experience!
I think its important to want to have sex because you want to have sex, rather than for the sake of measuring up to…[Read more]
It’s been very awkward! I’ve been using Hinge and people seem even more nervous go out and meet you in person. However, I’ve had some really good and long conversations with people over the app because it seems like quite a few of us are just stuck at home!
My advice would be to use at your own discretion, maybe you’d want to chat with them…[Read more]
I would definitely recommend durex because sometimes if you or your partner have a penis then its good to get the right size condom!
My partner found the standard size condom didn’t fit him too well but we got a different size and now he finds it much more enjoyable.
Just my 2 cents!
I totally agree with this sentiment!
Honestly with the busy hub-bub hum-drum of modern life where we are constantly on the go, it can be so hard to make time for / put the energy into meeting new people or reconnecting with old ones. I’m really craving going out and meeting new people and just social activities in general but I…[Read more]
Right now I’m working as a baker at a hungarian donut shop. It’s a lot of fun. I’ve also worked as a wordpress website creator, a survey giver-outer, and had a paid position on the student representative council at my uni. But this go me thinking about unusual jobs and I always find it so interesting to know what people have done for work before.…[Read more]
I really relate to this struggle Will. I also came from a small and somewhat homophobic town, and it was hard growing up when my sexuality was at odds with the social norm. As a consequence I really had a similar experience to you…
I think with other gay men its kind of hard to get along with everyone. Because were kind of expected to…[Read more]
PotPlant started the topic Fun (non-penetrative) sexual activities to do with your sexual partner/s? in the forum Sex & Relationships 2 months, 1 week ago
Recently, my partner and I have been having sex more and more without penetration, which has been a refreshingly positive experience! Its been good to realise that it is possible to still have fun and feel connected without penetration…
I was wondering what are some of your favourite ways to have fun in the bedroom without penetration?
@goldenrose Wow that sounds fascinating!
I’ve been reading Fabric of The Cosmos by Brian Greene. It’s a really good introductory book to a lot of different physics concepts. I’ve really been enjoying it as he spends a lot of time explaining one single concept and the significance of the concept which has been quite refreshing in comparison to…[Read more]
What’s your favourite new song that you can’t stop listening to?
My favourite new song is “Rain on Me” by Lady Gaga and Ariana Grande
Winter or summer?
Winter all the way! I love wearing jumpers and drinking hot chocolate and this is the best season to do this.
How would you survive the zombie apocalypse?
I would find som…[Read more]