PotPlant started the topic Article: Women share things they wish men would stop copying from porn in the forum Sexual Health 5 days, 10 hours ago
In this article, women share things that they wish men would stop copying from porn. One that really resonated with me is hair pulling and going really fast, I really don’t enjoy this that much as it’s a bit rough for me (but everyone’s different!)
What are some of the thing…[Read more]
I feel like communication is not only important because it makes it easier for you to get pleasure, but also, many people are very turned on by their partner being turned on and experiencing pleasure. Then you’ll be having better sex and feeling better. So it’s a win win situation!
PotPlant started the topic Have you ever had a condom break? What did you do? in the forum Sexual Health 2 weeks, 5 days ago
Has anyone ever had a condom break on them? What did you do to deal with this?
I’ve had partners break the condom because it was too small and others that had it slip off them.
I’ve also had the condom get trapped inside of me while they pulled out.
Thankfully in these cases I was able to get it out safely so that there wasn’t any ejaculate in…[Read more]
I think a month into a relationship is a really good time. Thankfully, most STIs are highly treatable, so I think if you talk about having had an STI and you know the research behind it and can explain why its no longer a danger I think many partners would not mind.
However I think it depends on the STI. If you had chlamydia and you no…[Read more]
This is definitely the way to go! For 3 years I had casual dates with people time after time but either I was rejected or I didn’t click with them. I feel as though working on yourself can have nothing but a positive effect. My current partner that I’ve been with for 2 years I met after a spree of working on myself while also putting…[Read more]
I agree with @mickymee, you’re definitely not alone in this.
I always used to have a super hard time reaching orgasm with sexual partners. However, I think its not the end of the world if you can’t come. There shouldn’t be any shame attached to it. Like, sometimes your just not in the mood to come or its not…[Read more]
I’m similar. With a past partner I really enjoyed doggy style. However, with my new partner it feels a bit like an insult as if he doesn’t want to see my face…
Nowadays I much prefer missionary because we are in love and I love looking at his face and it feels fantastic.
I really do want to try some different positions as I…[Read more]
PotPlant replied to the topic Ecosexuals opting not to use condoms to save plastic! in the forum Sexual Health 2 weeks, 5 days ago
Just an update to this. For those of you that are eco-conscious there is a more eco-friendly alternative to condoms here:
It’s vegan meaning that none of the products in it are derived from animals and its made of latex which degrades faster than plastic. This would be much better than catching an STI I think!
PotPlant replied to the topic Spill the beans. What’s your best or worst dating story? in the forum Sexual Health 2 weeks, 5 days ago
So funny hearing everyone’s stories!
What a crook! That is a very funny story though, people are crazy…
PotPlant started the topic Have you ever asked anyone to have an STI test? What was their reaction? in the forum Sex & Relationships 6 months ago
I’ve asked my boyfriends in the past to go get tested at the start of a relationship before having condom-less sex, and its sometimes been hard to convince so I had to be very adamant about it, and really lay down the law.
Has anyone else ever asked anyone to have an STI test? How did they react?
PotPlant replied to the topic How to have a healthy relationship during COVID-19! in the forum Sex & Relationships 6 months ago
Hi @curiousss not sure if this is super relevant anymore because were sort of stepping out of lockdown in NSW at least #prayfornothirdwave #wearamask #gettested. But…
Something that my partner and I did that helped bring a little bit of spice to our relationship during COVID19 lockdown and isolation period was being a bit more experimental in…[Read more]
@trayl_blayza Too funny… This is not too related to sexual health but just generally I’ve found N95 masks quite good when walking around the city. Theres a bit more space for your mouth so its easier to breath. It also prevents some of the fumes from passing cars from being inhaled. Perhaps this might be the go for sex as well?
PotPlant started the topic Spill the beans. What’s your best or worst dating story? in the forum Sexual Health 6 months ago
During the worst date I ever went on the man I met on grindr who turned out to be a cult member. We went for a walk in the park and half way through the date attempted to recruit me to his cult. Needless to say I excused myself and got away from him post haste.
I’m wondering what were your worst dates. Were they through an app? Or an online…[Read more]
A lot of people in my friend groups have had Chlamydia before. I was wondering whether anyone here has had first hand experiences with Chlamydia. It’s a very common STI, and I was wondering what did it feel like? Did you notice it immediately? Did you treat it?
I think men would take it. I think it would be especially helpful because some women experience all sorts of side effects due to the pill. In long term relationships, this would totally help because it would ease some of the burden for women to always take it. However, I think women would still end up taking it more because there would be no such…[Read more]