sextronaut replied to the topic Online dating – things you wish you knew, tips and tricks in the forum Sex & Relationships 4 years, 2 months ago
I’m actually terrible at dating profiles too! I think this video about dating profiles is amazing – I wish I found it when I was using dating apps!
sextronaut replied to the topic What's the best fit? in the forum Sex & Relationships 4 years, 2 months ago
@weird_flex great question! I’m looking at changing my menstrual cup soon too and the sizing choices are a bit overwhelming, too! Trying them out does seem like the best option but they’re a pretty expensive investment to make if you’re just seeing how they fit. I’m under the impression that some companies base sizing off whether or not you’ve…[Read more]
sextronaut replied to the topic How do you make casual sex great? in the forum Sex & Relationships 4 years, 2 months ago
Great topic @earthmama! My main advice for great casual sex would be communication, consent, gentle starts and safety. Open-mindedness is fantastic so long as it’s balanced with communicated boundaries. 🙂 Washed hands is also super important for any sexual encounter, too. Ideally, I like to discuss safe sex options and contraception prior to…[Read more]
sextronaut replied to the topic What is your first period like? in the forum Sexual Health 4 years, 2 months ago
Thanks @nurse_nettie!
sextronaut replied to the topic Falling off the gym wagon in the forum Hanging Out 4 years, 2 months ago
I’ve also fallen off the wagon @will, and struggling to find something that works for my schedule that I really love and will stick to. I reeeeaally want to try pilates but the gyms in sydney are so expensive. Does anyone have any ideas on how to try it out cheaply?
sextronaut replied to the topic Getting an IUD in the forum Sexual Health 4 years, 2 months ago
@aunt_flo amazing! You’ll have to let us know how you get on with it
sextronaut replied to the topic What is your first period like? in the forum Sexual Health 4 years, 2 months ago
great topic @tea! I had no idea about the ‘menarche’ – how interesting!
My first period wasn’t super eventful – I seeing blood in my undies one morning, and I wasn’t too panicked because I knew what it was (thanks mum!). I was mostly just stressed throughout the day – I went to the bathroom so many times because I was sure I would leak everywhere…[Read more]
sextronaut replied to the topic Vaginas Deserve Giant Ads Too! in the forum Sexual Health 4 years, 2 months ago
thanks @tea!
sextronaut replied to the topic What sex and body positive resources do you use? in the forum Sex & Relationships 4 years, 2 months ago
@tea I have too many to list right now but I’ll break them down into categories and sort them out at a later time! I mostly use instagram, youtube, podcasts, facebook, websites and books. Anyone looking over my shoulder at my phone on my journey to work every day on buses have a great time, I’m sure! hahaha.
sextronaut replied to the topic Is a cold sore the same as genital herpes? in the forum Nurse Nettie 4 years, 2 months ago
@tea that sounds amazing!
sextronaut replied to the topic How to feel confident in your sexuality in the forum Sex & Relationships 4 years, 2 months ago
Oh wow was an amazing thread this has turned into!! Thanks for sharing your story, everyone! I’m so happy to hear we’re all on our own journey of self discovery.
@will that group session sounds amazing! What was the best thing you took away from it?
Also, I have to agree with @tea. Terms like ‘gold star lesbian’/’platinum gay’ were really…[Read more]
sextronaut replied to the topic Monogamy Netflix Episode in the forum Sex & Relationships 4 years, 2 months ago
@stephaniaaaah @goldenrose keep your eyes peeled for season 4 on july 12 friends!
sextronaut replied to the topic How to feel confident in your sexuality in the forum Sex & Relationships 4 years, 3 months ago
@tea I’ve had exactly the same experience! Thank god for the internet for making me feel normal!
sextronaut replied to the topic Vaginas Deserve Giant Ads Too! in the forum Sexual Health 4 years, 3 months ago
@tea I totally agree. More websites like Play Safe, I say!
sextronaut replied to the topic Male Contraceptive Gel?! in the forum Sex & Relationships 4 years, 3 months ago
@tea absolutely!! I told a female friend about this and her first reaction was ‘rubbing it on their shoulders?! Is the only way they can get men to use contraception is if they rub it on their muscles?!’ 😂😂😂
Probably not the case, obviously. But I am curious about why the gel is meant to be placed up on the shoulder!
sextronaut replied to the topic Vaginas Deserve Giant Ads Too! in the forum Sexual Health 4 years, 3 months ago
If you enjoyed this article I’ve just found another one written by the brilliant creators of Unbound – Polly Rodriguez and Sarah Jayne Kinney. With some brilliant quotes:
‘This dichotomy exists because a man’s ability to have an erection is considered a health concern, based on the biological fact that a man must orgasm in order to procreate. A…[Read more]
sextronaut started the topic How to feel confident in your sexuality in the forum Sex & Relationships 4 years, 3 months ago
I’ve definitely internalised shame and homophobia throughout my life (without meaning to, obviously) and it affects my confidence levels all the time when it comes to coming out to different people or talking about my experiences as a bisexual/pansexual (totally up for a discussion about these labels too – maybe in another thread if anyone is…[Read more]
sextronaut started the topic Male Contraceptive Gel?! in the forum Sex & Relationships 4 years, 3 months ago
OMG. This BBC article focuses on a couple in Edinburgh who are a part of a trial for a new form of contraception- a hormonal gel for men. It’s a mixture of progesterone and testosterone and it seems to be effective! I’m so excited by this news – and if it works it sounds like it would be perfect for me and my sex life. What are your thoughts about it?
sextronaut replied to the topic Making friends in your 20's in the forum Hanging Out 4 years, 3 months ago
Thanks for the support @goldenrose and @aunt_flo! I’ve managed to have a few individual catch ups in the last couple of weeks which has been super super nice. I’m also looking to find a new gym and start doing things semi-regularly so hopefully I’ll find some sort of group through that. Making friends is harder than dating, I find!
sextronaut replied to the topic Getting an IUD in the forum Sexual Health 4 years, 3 months ago
Hey @aunt_flo! Sorry you had such an awful migraine – sounds really painful.
I’ve never had an IUD but I consider it all the time. I’m mostly put off by the pain of insertion and the cramping in the hours after, as well as side effects (messing up my period and pain) and my partner feeling the strings during sex. I totally know what you mean…[Read more]