I love queer Christmas!! @sextronaut I’m so sorry you didn’t have a nice experience! Love the sparking joy mentality haha
I had a good time! I didn’t go to the parade because I’ve seen it once already and I figure that’s enough. I ended up going to the Unicorns party which was amazing, I love the community that party brings. Stayed out until 3am…[Read more]
Interesting conversation with friends lead to the discovery that a penis used to be referred to as a “verge” which made me giggle.
That got me thinking about what people call their genitals. I generally refer to scientific terms (penis and vulva) when talking about them but sometimes a more ,,,risky term starting with a C – though only during…[Read more]
@earthmama YES HOW GOOD WAS THAT EPISODE??? I am in love with this positive media representation right now surrounding sex and also body empowerment!! (see Nike + Gillette)
I haven’t gotten to episode five yet but I’m sooo here for that omg yesss positive body exploration!!!
Printed forms and over the phone chats? Am I in love with this health care model? Yes @nurse_nettie thank you SO much for this information! Online testing is so cool and accessible I’m so glad it exists!
Thank you for linking to more local services also!
It’s really shocking that articles still use that kind of language surrounding our bodies! ‘Neat and tidy’ is definitely not how I would describe my labia. I have friends who kind of make derogatory comments sometimes and use labia as a precursor, so things like ‘fanny flaps’ will be used as an insult. Well, that’s me, I have a very not neat and…[Read more]
Hahah yeah definitely two different words there @purple omg
I love that this time alone has given you time for self-reflection! Do you find that since you’re not having sex with other people that you’ve been able to explore yourself more in a sexual sense? Like what you like or don’t like, how you connect with your body more?
I don’t remember…[Read more]
Did you know you can get an STI test done online???? OUTRAGEOUS!! Also, cool? I didn’t know this was a thing until today tbh! I think it’s a really cool way to figure out if there’s anything serious going on without having the hassle of booking GP appointments – though if there is cause for concern please do see a health care professional! I’ve…[Read more]
@aunt_flo My first experience felt much the same! Though I was too stubborn to stop trying haha, of course, if I was in massive pain I would have! I totally feel the same about the dryness effect too, big reason why I won’t use them anymore.
Ohh and then what if a person becomes emotionally attached to the sex doll @sextronaut? I think that would change things for me, but then communicating well in the relationship could help prevent this from happening I suppose.
tea replied to the topic 'Eating Ass' and other offers that are suddenly everywhere in the forum Sex & Relationships 3 weeks, 6 days ago
Hmm interesting point @earthmama, I guess if you become so engrossed in one area of sex you kind of forget about everything else? Similar to if someone was ALWAYS having vanilla sex and then became exposed to something in the kink scene, they would be like WOAH OUTRAGEOUS, as opposed to someone from the kink scene.
I don’t think anything really…[Read more]
@aunt_flo I’ve found a lot of my partners get so disheartened about not being able to make me come!! I’m always fine with it though as long as we’ve had a good time, that’s all that really matters (though orgasm is always greatly appreciated haha).
Wow @earthmama four??? I’m glad you got there in the end though!!
I think female pleasure…[Read more]
@purple did you have to sneak in and out of the window? hahah
@earthmama YAY TO TRYING NEW THINGS!!! Ahh, that’s so exciting! Hmm yeah true about the venting thing, I have a counsellor in my pocket at all times for this. Also, I’ve found keeping a diary to scream at instead of another human helps a lot, especially if I’m being super irrational.
tea replied to the topic Asking someone to wear a condom… how do you do it?! in the forum Sexual Health 3 weeks, 6 days ago
@earthmama totally terrifying! Maybe I guess you could bring it up in conversation prior to actually having an intimate moment?
@andymate Thank you SO much for reaching out to us here on the forums! I think connecting with friends is definitely a good place to start for you to express how you’re feeling, as well as start to heal from the abusive environment.
@purple Thank you!!! Overcoming my fears one tampon at a time haha Yeah my girlfriend gave me the same advice about shoving one entire finger up there which to me, just seemed so deep? Even though that kind of thing goes in there all the time when I’m not bleeding hahah
Absolutely make sure you’re doing it because you want to!!!!!
My first experience was pretty awful, to be honest. It was PV sex, I was uncomfortable and bled after. No orgasm. I really wish I knew more about being intimate with a partner prior to sex instead of just someone using me for their own pleasure I guess? Sex works both ways!
Definitely agree with female pleasure just straight up not being discussed when it comes to sex, so how are we suppose to know about it? I had similar experiences when I first became sexually active. It wasn’t comfortable and I didn’t feel good but I just assumed that was normal because I didn’t know otherwise.
I wish I knew that sex is supposed…[Read more]
@sextronaut Definitely worse! It seems people are more oppressed in terms of sexual exploration due to Western influences? Western sexualisation feels so prudish in comparison to some things shown in the show prior to colonisation. It’s kind of like erasing culturally significant expression/practices by enforcing a more Western-based view on sex…[Read more]