YogiGirl

I’ve been experimenting with foreplay recently and my FAVOURITE has to be getting a massage – who wouldn’t love it though, haha
I really recommend giving it a go with some music, candles and we use coconut oil which smells amazing. It always makes me feel relaxed and my partner loves it too.

One thing I really struggle with is any kind of role…[Read more]

My partner LOVES receiving naughty pics throughout the day and it’s such a foreign idea to me. I’m not hugely confident in myself and really struggle to feel sexy, so usually it takes me a long time to work up the confidence to take a picture – and even then it’s usually with me covering any private parts. I’m all about the angles haha.
Any s…[Read more]

@earthmama. ‘But what about oral ?? Do you ask? Do you just shut your eyes and pretend that STI’s don’t exist?? :/’ good point!! I’m always insistent that we use a condom when having penetrative sex but never even think about oral, which is so silly as herpes can easily be transferred during oral.
I personally don’t think asking to put one on nee…[Read more]

Hey @nurse_nettie, i’ve recently had a referral to get a Mirena inserted due to my ongoing PCOS, however i’m really nervous about it. When I get my cervical screening it’s always very painful and I bleed, so I can only imagine this is going to be worse. I keep putting it off as it sounds like such a horrid process but I know it’s a much safer…[Read more]

Hey @moniyami, this is totally normal in relationships, so please don’t worry. It takes a lot of vulnerability to open your heart up to someone new and can be especially confusing when it’s an old friend who you’ve recently developed romantic feeling for. At the beginning of a relationship you are learning lots about each other and feelings can be…[Read more]

Hey @clovergirl, it’s so normal! I’ve been worried in the past of the opposite and felt like I needed to use lots of lube to accomodate, but actually if you have good foreplay and feel aroused then being wet is great! It makes sex feel so much better, so defo nothing to be embarrassed of!

Hey everyone! Just starting this convo back up as i’m keen to hear your favourite water-based lubes.

There are soooo many options and the cheaper ones can be really sticky – not a fan!
Funnily, we bought a ‘warming’ one recently to try as it was meant to increase sensation…it wasn’t quite what we expected. If anyone has tried the Original S…[Read more]

@tea and @purple I love a good rabbit too! They really tick all the boxes don’t they.

I just bought a mini vibrator that my partner has the remote for, so when we are out of the house he can turn it on. Very naughty but a lot of fun to spice things up!

Hey @potplant, proud of you for sticking to your morals and saying no. We need to set those boundaries and honour what feels right.

Did you see them again after that or did that put you off completely?

Another thing @rolldaniel is that maybe she is worried about anything she might send remaining private. Sexting is something that can be fun but also comes with the risk of those images being shared if anything was to happen between you. Could this be something she is concerned about? I guess if so, it’s just important to make sure she has your trust 🙂

Hey @trayl_blayza it seems like you have the same views as me. I’ve had a couple of one night stands where I definitely took the path of reducing risk with protection, but still felt so guilty about not letting them know.

Since then i’ve been seeing a guy. I told him before anything happened and he was totally cool about it! No judgement or…[Read more]

Hey @potplant, i’ve actually never used flavoured condoms but kind of like the idea of them adding a playful twist to oral. Might have to give strawberry a try! Any flavours you’d say are a definite no?

I feel exactly the same @goldenrose! There is so much pressure on having an orgasm and when you are with someone you don’t know that well it’s hard to feel that connection and for them to know your preferences. I also find that I get in my head way too much and have an internal dialogue of telling myself I must organis and why is it taking so…[Read more]

Hey @rolldaniel, sorry to hear you are going through such a tough time with you girlfriend. There’s definitely a ‘honeymoon’ phase at the beginning of a relationship where you might be having a lot of sex, but it’s natural for things to calm down slightly. It sounds like your girlfriend had a real mental shift towards sex which it would be great…[Read more]

Hey @potplant totally! It seems to be a massive turn on for the guys i’ve been with. They love being told how to give me maximum pleasure. Win win for sure!

Amazing, thanks @curiousss! I will definitely check out the Jean Hailes website now it comes so well recommended 😀

@curiousss how are you finding working from home? Do you think you will ever return to the office? I guess my situation is a little different as I am living alone, however when I was living with my partner during full lockdown I totally agree that communication was key. Luckily for us we are able to live a semi-normal life in Australia now! We…[Read more]