Play Safe | YogiGirl | Activity https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/members/yogigirl/activity/ Activity feed for YogiGirl. Fri, 26 Feb 2021 08:00:39 +1100 https://buddypress.org/?v=5.2.0 en-US 30 hourly 2 9c33d85f0a7c7e05250d9bead7da3857 YogiGirl replied to the topic Polycystic Ovaries - Any advice on managing the symptoms? in the forum Sexual Health https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/polycystic-ovaries-any-advice-on-managing-the-symptoms/#post-128919 Tue, 02 Feb 2021 01:17:44 +1100 Amazing, thanks @curiousss! I will definitely check out the Jean Hailes website now it comes so well recommended πŸ˜€

]]> 1d45e311175c09a948d93c20dffeb5de YogiGirl replied to the topic How to have a healthy relationship during COVID-19! in the forum Sex & Relationships https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/how-to-have-a-healthy-relationship-during-covid-19/#post-128918 Tue, 02 Feb 2021 01:11:19 +1100 @curiousss how are you finding working from home? Do you think you will ever return to the office? I guess my situation is a little different as I am living alone, however when I was living with my partner during full lockdown I totally agree that communication was key. Luckily for us we are able to live a semi-normal life in Australia now! We…[Read more]

]]> 9f8b10a67f69191c6a166a304bf14373 YogiGirl replied to the topic How to do a breast check? in the forum Nurse Nettie https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/how-to-do-a-breast-check/#post-128917 Tue, 02 Feb 2021 01:02:55 +1100 Hey @nurse_nettie I love that video! Thanks for sharing πŸ™‚ Do you have any tips for doing a breast check for someone with implants? I guess the principle is the same but I find it hard to do such a thorough check when there’s something in the way haha.

]]> 3bab25aec55162662a9db7fe57d44ee1 YogiGirl replied to the topic Polycystic Ovaries - Any advice on managing the symptoms? in the forum Sexual Health https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/polycystic-ovaries-any-advice-on-managing-the-symptoms/#post-128907 Mon, 01 Feb 2021 22:36:23 +1100 Thanks @nurse_nettie and @curiousss. So to update i’ve have been fully diagnosed πŸ™ Luckily I have the most supportive doctor who has given me some great tips to manage the symptoms and a gel to use before bed to help with my acne, which i’m pleased to say is working already! It’s a real blow to your confidence when you see the changes happening…[Read more]

]]> 8900190071d3a92d11f3e9a963c6a9a2 YogiGirl started the topic Polycystic Ovaries - Any advice on managing the symptoms? in the forum Sexual Health https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/polycystic-ovaries-any-advice-on-managing-the-symptoms/ Tue, 19 Jan 2021 04:14:56 +1100 Hey everyone! I’m currently going through blood tests and scans to diagnose potential polycystic ovaries. I’ve been getting irregular periods since coming off the pill 6 months ago but the worst bit is that my skin has been covered in ache and i’ve had increased body hair growth. Both are leaving me feeling super unattractive and at a bit of a…[Read more]

]]> abb409713ab11e5bae5601770937a83b YogiGirl replied to the topic Telling your partner your sexual needs in the forum Sex & Relationships https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/telling-your-partner-your-sexual-needs/#post-128865 Tue, 19 Jan 2021 04:01:37 +1100 @aunt_flo I definitely recommend finding your voice when it comes to expressing your sexual needs. At the end of the day, it’s for everyone involved to get maximum enjoyment. I think you’ve just got to make it seem like a positive that you feel comfortable enough to do so rather than worrying about it being a mood killer πŸ™‚

]]> 9c86f38cb19a2fe219b7bc84fef8696f YogiGirl replied to the topic Am I normal? in the forum Nurse Nettie https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/am-i-normal/#post-128864 Tue, 19 Jan 2021 03:49:18 +1100 Hey @dirtychai, love that! I’ve actually been thinking about investing in one of the Courageous Ladies calendars as a general mood booster but this Breast Awareness Hanger is super cool. Perfect if sharing a house with a few ladies as a reminder to do regular breast checks. Something i’ve been neglecting, so thanks for the reminder.

]]> 2729ee5641ca3558436c9f556340c9b8 YogiGirl replied to the topic Facing rejection when dating in the forum Sex & Relationships https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/facing-rejection-when-dating/#post-128824 Mon, 11 Jan 2021 23:11:03 +1100 Thanks @trayl_blayza, you are so right! I think I just need to focus on myself right now. I’ve decided to buy a car and do some road trips so that will keep me entertained and get outdoors. I’m definitely learning a lot about myself being single so I feel like rather than looking for relationships it’s better to look for opportunities and meeting…[Read more]

]]> 4aa805bc2193508b6326cc4c095bb032 YogiGirl replied to the topic What was your first tampon experience like? in the forum Sexual Health https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/your-first-tampon-experience/#post-128823 Mon, 11 Jan 2021 23:06:43 +1100 Hey @tea, I saw this post and had to comment as I was in exactly the same situation as you! This month I used a tampon for the first time and i’m 26. I had all the same questions and luckily had a good group of girls with me who helped me out.

I actually found the first one SO STRANGE and foreign to have in and was constantly scared it was going…[Read more]

]]> d2dfd7f713b6258b6a3b902ee7d7fd02 YogiGirl started the topic Telling your partner your sexual needs in the forum Sex & Relationships https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/telling-your-partner-your-sexual-needs/ Mon, 11 Jan 2021 22:55:44 +1100 I recently had the most refreshing experience with a guy. We had sex which was great but I didn’t climax. Afterwards, he asked me what I like and what would ‘satisfy’ me, then made sure the next time all my sexual needs were met. Do you feel confident to ask for what turns you on during sex? At the end of the day, it’s all about mutual…[Read more]

]]> 41424d4518f647f608601ea17450a89e YogiGirl replied to the topic STI specific dating apps in the forum Sex & Relationships https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/sti-specific-dating-apps/#post-128821 Mon, 11 Jan 2021 22:43:18 +1100 Yes so true @trayl_blayza and @aunt_flo. It would be refreshing to live in a world free from STI stigmas! At the end of the day, we are so much more than an STI positive status.

]]> d81ac34bb59cf309e1601aed9a8dadf0 YogiGirl replied to the topic Spill the beans. What’s your best or worst dating story? in the forum Sexual Health https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/spill-the-beans-whats-your-best-or-worst-dating-story/#post-128805 Wed, 16 Dec 2020 03:39:51 +1100 @dirtychai what a nightmare! I usually go for drinks as a first date too so can totally understand how things can get a little boozy. Sounds like you had a nice Hinge date though to drive you home, bless them!

]]> 46313e427bdc674916214ab0db2a58b1 YogiGirl started the topic Facing rejection when dating in the forum Sex & Relationships https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/facing-rejection-when-dating/ Wed, 16 Dec 2020 03:33:09 +1100 I’ve recently started dating and while i’ve had some really nice dates and met a lot of interesting people, i’ve also been faced with some rejection. I went on a date with a guy who I clicked with immediately but after the date he gradually took longer to reply and I got the classic ‘I’m not ready for a relationship. You seem like a great person…[Read more]

]]> d3cee1d437fbcc689ba1929dbc94a0a7 YogiGirl started the topic Book recommendations for body positivity and self worth in the forum Sex & Relationships https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/book-recommendations-for-body-positivity-and-self-worth/ Wed, 16 Dec 2020 03:28:01 +1100 I’ve just finished reading Women Don’t Owe You Pretty by Florence Given and it’s given me such confidence in myself and my worth. She talks about everything from sex and relationships to valuing yourself as an individual rather than seeking validation from others through dating and having a significant other. She is AMAZING!

I’m now on a…[Read more]

]]> 9fea422d0e530a84b26f2a68d78aaba3 YogiGirl replied to the topic Ghosting in the forum Sex & Relationships https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/ghosting/page/3/#post-128800 Wed, 16 Dec 2020 03:22:16 +1100 Hey @dirtychai, this is so interesting that they have ‘levels of ghosting’. I personally think you should just tell someone you are not interested so they aren’t expecting or hoping for a reply. I’ve started using dating apps recently and find it so odd when you might be getting on well with someone over messages and then one day the conversation…[Read more]

]]> 1fccae89e1f1f5ec0901b6e437028257 YogiGirl replied to the topic Can irregular periods be regular? in the forum Nurse Nettie https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/can-irregular-periods-be-regular/#post-128767 Thu, 03 Dec 2020 04:10:38 +1100 Hi @nurse_nettie, thanks so much for that information. I will definitely get myself to the GP for a check up. I’ve had friends say it took them a few months to get back to regular periods after coming off the pill but my last was the 31st August so it is over the 3 month mark now.

I don’t think I could be pregnant so hopefully it’s my hormones adjusting.

]]> 9a468d8f3169c3f4eb2bf787468be3d6 YogiGirl replied to the topic STI specific dating apps in the forum Sex & Relationships https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/sti-specific-dating-apps/#post-128766 Thu, 03 Dec 2020 04:04:46 +1100 Hey @aunt_flo I think the same that it must be a relief to not have to bring it up directly.

You are right though, there is nothing wrong with having an STI and it’s a conversation that we should all be having before sleeping with a new sexual partner πŸ™‚

]]> 0aefcd9549740c2aa88344b2298777ce YogiGirl replied to the topic Can irregular periods be regular? in the forum Nurse Nettie https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/can-irregular-periods-be-regular/#post-128732 Tue, 24 Nov 2020 03:56:24 +1100 Hi @piperr42, i’m in a similar situation at the moment. I came off the pill in August and have not had a period since. I’m wondering how long I should leave it for my body to adjust to the change of no contraceptive pill before getting a checkup with my GP. @nurse_nettie you mentioned it could take 2-3 months, but is it sometimes the case for it…[Read more]

]]> 62f5f9e966d0d1d8f04f465dd536b681 YogiGirl replied to the topic Masturbation and Shopping for sex toys in the forum Sexual Health https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/masturbation-and-shopping-for-sex-toys/page/3/#post-128731 Tue, 24 Nov 2020 03:50:08 +1100 Just bringing this back to the forum as i’ve recently started experimenting more with sex toys and masturbation (just out of a long term relationship). Me and my ex used to visit adult stores together and found it quite sexy choosing things to use together. Does anyone else use toys with their partners? Any recommendations of your favourite sex…[Read more]

]]> 84a201819a2d82837c0ec7949bc8e404 YogiGirl replied to the topic Having sex with new partners after a long term relationship in the forum Sex & Relationships https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/having-sex-with-new-partners-after-a-long-term-relationship/#post-128730 Tue, 24 Nov 2020 03:43:44 +1100 Thanks @champagnepapi and @aunt_flo πŸ™‚ It’s definitely been weird getting used to single life after such a long time with the same person! I’ve been taking lots of time to explore new hobbies and getting my new home set up, so it’s all feeling very positive.
Thanks for the great advice. I think as i’m not wanting to rush into anything the slow…[Read more]

]]> 36591a917d8d1f479381ebaf2abb3ba4 YogiGirl started the topic When to tell someone you have an STI in the forum Sexual Health https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/when-to-tell-someone-you-have-an-sti/ Tue, 24 Nov 2020 03:38:27 +1100 What stage in dating have you told your partners that you have an STI? Of course I would let anyone know before any kind of sexual activity, but as there is so much negativity around the topic it can be a bit of a mood killer. I personally want to be able to get to know someone and feel in a safe space before letting them know but at the same time…[Read more]

]]> a77a790d3899c803ecf387a3e7f8b4d1 YogiGirl started the topic STI specific dating apps in the forum Sex & Relationships https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/sti-specific-dating-apps/ Tue, 24 Nov 2020 03:27:31 +1100 Telling someone you have an STI can be daunting. I’ve noticed a few dating apps that are specifically for people with STIs to connect. Does anyone have any experience using them? I can see the appeal of having one less awkward conversation. Dating is hard enough!

]]> 19173d50406eff872590c4d20157cd7c YogiGirl replied to the topic Is flirting okay in relationships? in the forum Sex & Relationships https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/is-flirting-okay-in-relationships/#post-128724 Tue, 24 Nov 2020 03:21:28 +1100 This is an interesting one @aunt_flo. I would say, think about how you would feel if the situation was reversed and it was your partner flirting with others. If it feels hurtful then that probably answers the question. I think you can tell if something feels honest or if alarm bells are saying that you are crossing a line. Personally I just feel…[Read more]

]]> 3633fd972e88934759949afac9e18286 YogiGirl started the topic Having sex with new partners after a long term relationship in the forum Sex & Relationships https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/having-sex-with-new-partners-after-a-long-term-relationship/ Fri, 16 Oct 2020 01:17:34 +1100 I’m recently out of a long term relationship and am facing the idea of being with new partners. It’s definitely an adjustment getting used to someones preferences and body when you are used to the same thing and comfortable with each other. Anyone have tips to make that first time less scary?

]]> 38bd8f3f92b4a31647df4e68839dea9e YogiGirl replied to the topic Telling your partner you have an STI... in the forum Sexual Health https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/telling-your-partner-you-have-an-sti/#post-128648 Fri, 16 Oct 2020 01:13:58 +1100 Wondering if anyone has experience of telling a potential sexual partner that they have an STI? Or have you been in the position of someone disclosing to you that they have one? How did you/that person deal with the information? It’s so important to be open with potential partners if you have an STI but its a scary conversation to have! There are…[Read more]

]]> 131ae85c6e671532335f5a72633576dc YogiGirl replied to the topic which problems do you have in online flirting? in the forum News & Announcements https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/which-problems-do-you-have-in-online-flirting/#post-128647 Fri, 16 Oct 2020 01:06:30 +1100 Hey @kris, I totally know what you mean that it can be challenging to flirt online. I would agree with @champagnepapi that it takes the pressure to ‘flirt’ off if you treat it like a conversation. Be chatty and always be yourself. I would also say that I find emojis useful to lighten the tone and be a bit more cheeky. Throw a wink in there every…[Read more]

]]> c1cdc0a8ddb658d2923792397b17349b YogiGirl replied to the topic What if my partner won't wear a condom? in the forum Sexual Health https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/what-if-my-partner-wont-wear-a-condom/#post-128646 Fri, 16 Oct 2020 01:02:45 +1100 Hey @potplant, I hate it when this happens! I recently had a similar experience where they were annoyed that I wanted to use one and I had to keep repeating myself. I felt like it just took all the passion and excitement out of the situation while I tried to convince him to do it. I totally agree with you @goldenrose, it’s really off…[Read more]

]]> 8279020d9d933f10db83c08c5a184a70 YogiGirl replied to the topic Spill the beans. What’s your best or worst dating story? in the forum Sexual Health https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/spill-the-beans-whats-your-best-or-worst-dating-story/#post-128645 Fri, 16 Oct 2020 00:56:15 +1100 Wow @potplant that sounds intense! @aunt_flo parents on the first date is a lot too. I recently went on a Bumble date with a guy who freely admitted his pictures were two years old (first mistake) then he got really drunk and started shouting to everyone in the pub that I was “a treat”. Needless to say, I made a speedy exit!

]]> 805f4d8917a7ebf267b41cf9c97c93e8 YogiGirl replied to the topic Stepping Back into the World in the forum Hanging Out https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/stepping-back-into-the-world/#post-128563 Wed, 30 Sep 2020 02:12:15 +1000 Hey @earthmama @potplant @goldenrose @aunt_flo, how are you all finding things a few months on? I thought by now we would be back to more of a state of normality but the pub check ins are still very much a thing! One of the main struggles i’m having is with everything feeling so regimented. I get that it’s for our safety to beat the virus but I…[Read more]

]]> fcff96da4c0ace2d7541c2908359443d YogiGirl replied to the topic Condom recommendations? in the forum Sex & Relationships https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/condom-recommendations/#post-128562 Wed, 30 Sep 2020 02:03:07 +1000 Just bringing this back up as i’ve recently come off the pill and am using condoms as my sole contraceptive. Anyone have any recent recommendations of their favourite condom brands? Being newly single and no longer taking a birth control pill, I haven’t had to buy any in a while!

]]> 9fad58534cb72c7c8dd20a8189b2316e YogiGirl replied to the topic Ladies; how often do you receive oral sex? in the forum Sex & Relationships https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/ladies-how-often-do-you-receive-oral-sex/#post-128561 Wed, 30 Sep 2020 01:59:48 +1000 Hey @explorer33, this is such a good question! I personally don’t enjoy oral so much and didn’t do it regularly with my ex, who I was with for over 5 years. I think it depends on personal preference as some people really enjoy it. I think if you and your partner know it’s something you like then it can be a fun way to mix up things in the bedroom…[Read more]

]]> 78b09073652def35c2a550190616373e YogiGirl replied to the topic Advice for mis-matched libido in the forum Sex & Relationships https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/advice-for-mis-matched-libido/#post-128559 Wed, 30 Sep 2020 01:45:00 +1000 Hey @aunt_flo, yes I think it’s just one of those inevitable things about being in a long term relationship. The ‘honeymoon’ phase doesn’t last forever!

I’ve been trying to do more yoga and meditation recently which has been helping with my mood. I do think COVID has made all emotions a lot more heightened so it’s good to take that time out and…[Read more]

]]> 47475cc529d12b780f9ca5dd760f70eb YogiGirl replied to the topic Advice for mis-matched libido in the forum Sex & Relationships https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/advice-for-mis-matched-libido/#post-128535 Wed, 09 Sep 2020 05:24:35 +1000 Hey @raincoat, thanks for sharing! That thread is really helpful.

Since my last post I have decided to take a break from the pill completely. I’ve been on it for so long that I want to give my body a break and see if my libido picks up. I am intrigued as to how my body might change coming off it after so long. @nursenettie is there anything I…[Read more]

]]> bfece66cc54412b5871bf446308bfe94 YogiGirl replied to the topic Sex During Covid - What is everyone doing? in the forum Sex & Relationships https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/sex-during-covid-what-is-everyone-doing/#post-128534 Wed, 09 Sep 2020 05:19:25 +1000 @trayl_blayza I totally agree. It would be very strange wearing a face mask during sex and i’m thinking the social distancing would be another issue. Welcome to sex in 2020. I am recently single and intrigued to how things will go dating during COVID restrictions. I’d love ay advice people have to still have fun while staying safe.

]]> 112a02b67729cc633226e9a30c21875b YogiGirl replied to the topic Sex During Covid - What is everyone doing? in the forum Sex & Relationships https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/sex-during-covid-what-is-everyone-doing/#post-128533 Wed, 09 Sep 2020 05:19:23 +1000 @trayl_blayza I totally agree. It would be very strange wearing a face mask during sex and i’m thinking the social distancing would be another issue. Welcome to sex in 2020. I am recently single and intrigued to how things will go dating during COVID restrictions. I’d love ay advice people have to still have fun while staying safe.

]]> b12a4e0bf3d839c75989938f6010f62c YogiGirl replied to the topic Anyone here watch Drag Race? in the forum Hanging Out https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/anyone-here-watch-drag-race/#post-128532 Wed, 09 Sep 2020 05:14:16 +1000 Hey @potplant, I LOVE Drag Race and Drag Race UK. Have you seen the UK edition? Haven’t checked out Canada yet but i’m all about new series right now so will have to check it out. I feel like it’s the ultimate uplifting show.

]]> f64ddd7c095fc8a4bb635f2cb043a6e5 YogiGirl replied to the topic Thoughts on a male contraceptive pill in the forum Sex & Relationships https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/thoughts-on-a-male-contraceptive-pill/#post-128531 Wed, 09 Sep 2020 05:12:28 +1000 Hey @potplant, yes so true about the side affects to the pill – its definitely something i’ve had issues with myself. It would be interesting to see whether a male contraceptive would affect men in the same way. You definitely have a point with the lack of morning after pill for men. Something I didn’t think about!

]]> fe236f1b58afe8a21745afbd431f074f YogiGirl started the topic Advice for mis-matched libido in the forum Sex & Relationships https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/advice-for-mis-matched-libido/ Fri, 28 Aug 2020 02:47:54 +1000 I’ve been in a long term relationship for a few years and following the first few months excitement and passion, it has become clear that we have very different libidos. I feel like this is partially due to me being on the pill long term, but I definitely don’t have much of a drive. Wondering if anyone else has this problem in their relationship?…[Read more]

]]> 3d81790e9cd11d9c9230d5c53840353d YogiGirl started the topic Thoughts on a male contraceptive pill in the forum Sex & Relationships https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/thoughts-on-a-male-contraceptive-pill/ Fri, 28 Aug 2020 02:39:49 +1000 I had friends over to dinner and the conversation came up that there are so many birth control options for women, but for men it seems like just condoms or a vasectomy. The conversation then turned to whether the men in the group would take a contraceptive pill if it existed and the responses were “No way” or “I would forget to take it, so it…[Read more]

]]> fb504d36c0e2cd79cc28e59015b2c318 YogiGirl replied to the topic Body hair in the forum Sex & Relationships https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/body-hair/#post-128460 Fri, 28 Aug 2020 02:22:51 +1000 @aunt_flo @piperr42 totally agree! It is SO much effort to keep up the perceived ideas of what body hair should look like. I’m a ‘shave once a week’ kind of girl but sometimes catch myself forgetting! I have noticed more and more that women are letting their hair grow out which is so empowering! One thing that annoys me about the way we are told…[Read more]

]]> 856dca85d1bd38f2c578699875610c03 YogiGirl replied to the topic Sex in long relationships in the forum Sex & Relationships https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/sex-in-long-relationships/#post-128459 Fri, 28 Aug 2020 02:16:49 +1000 Hey @champagnepapi, it can be a real challenge! I have found that as time goes on and the ‘honeymoon’ phase ends you get comfortable with each other (which is great) but the intense passion can fizzle out. It can be fun to try something different like toys to get some excitement, or maybe role play?

In terms of the non-monogamy, I think it works…[Read more]

]]> ddbe7bb9fa4f1b8ba0bb0a644b159d99 YogiGirl replied to the topic How to have a healthy relationship during COVID-19! in the forum Sex & Relationships https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/how-to-have-a-healthy-relationship-during-covid-19/#post-128458 Fri, 28 Aug 2020 02:04:37 +1000 Hey @sextronaut and @aunt_flo, I completely agree with running out of things to talk about! When you are both out at work for the day, even if it’s little things that happened you still have something to share and ask “how was your day?” When you are in the same house all day it gets a little tricky! I think it’s all been about realising…[Read more]

]]> a6b98075ba3205e2eb8fee5554222454 YogiGirl replied to the topic Why can't I orgasm? in the forum Sex & Relationships https://playsafe.health.nsw.gov.au/forums/topic/why-cant-i-orgasm/#post-123391 Wed, 11 Dec 2019 02:27:15 +1100 This is definitely great advice!

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