Like all sex, oral sex should be consensual, respectful, and something you and your partner both feel comfortable with. That means talking openly before, during and after, making sure everyone feels safe and heard. Clear consent is just as important for oral sex as it is for any other kind of sexual activity. Only go ahead if you really feel ready, and take time to chat about boundaries, protection, and what you’re both into (or not into).
You can still pass on or get STIs like chlamydia, gonorrhoea, herpes and syphilis through oral sex so it’s a good idea to be prepared with condoms, dental dams and lube. Regular STI testing is also important because most STIs don’t show symptoms.
To keep things fresh and pleasant for everyone, it can be a good idea to shower or wash your genitals before sex, especially if it’s been a sweaty day. It’s all about feeling fresh, comfortable, and confident.