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Let’s talk sex positions!
Do you find that a particular position works better for you than others? Like do you have a go to position if things aren’t really working? What works best for you?
Great question. I don’t think I have one ‘go to’ position, I tend to like mixing it up. Although that may be a by-product of my longest relationship where my partner constantly wanted to change positions – like he was working through a checklist! Lol
The change of positions can sometimes be an art form, choosing the right moment to change and doing it quickly to not loose the moment
I find that my current partner likes to stick to the same one or two positions, and “as the man” must be in control lol like you @Kit I enjoy mixing it up, but have found as @Caiti said it can be an art form especially with a partner that doesn’t like change.
I have tried to talk to him, but he quickly forgets when in the moment lol
Is there any way to include the conversation in the bedroom @mak_trouble891? ‘I like it when you..’ ‘Could you do…. more’ Or even learn some grappling techniques to flip into your preferred position? 😉 Lol, that’s a joke but if it happens to work for you, it could be fun to mix up the idea of ‘control’.
@Kit I’m definitely gunna try that, hopefully phrasing it that way will help. Fingers crossed lol
Good luck!
I get really bad foot cramps in some positions. Unfortunately they’re some of my favourite positions, but it makes the changing of positions somewhat of a necessity haha