Great question. I don’t think I have one ‘go to’ position, I tend to like mixing it up. Although that may be a by-product of my longest relationship where my partner constantly wanted to change positions – like he was working through a checklist! Lol
I find that my current partner likes to stick to the same one or two positions, and “as the man” must be in control lol like you @Kit I enjoy mixing it up, but have found as @Caiti said it can be an art form especially with a partner that doesn’t like change. I have tried to talk to him, but he quickly forgets when in the moment lol
Is there any way to include the conversation in the bedroom @mak_trouble891? ‘I like it when you..’ ‘Could you do…. more’ Or even learn some grappling techniques to flip into your preferred position? 😉 Lol, that’s a joke but if it happens to work for you, it could be fun to mix up the idea of ‘control’.