This week has felt overrun by heterosexual men offering to ‘eat ass’, presenting it as a skill in their repertoire. Have I been sleeping under a rock or is this suddenly cropping up everywhere, almost as a trend for heterosexual sex?
Where do these trends start? Who decides them?
My guess is that it’s a combination of showing that they’re into “taboo” or “different stuff” as @curiousss says, that they’re “generous” or a “giver” in the bedroom, as a way to introduce sex into the conversation, or an opportunity to talk about more kinky stuff. I actually kind of like it when people mention sex on their profile or discuss sex before we’ve even met, because I know to stay away haha. Saves a lot of time!
@tea offered personally! But always online/over message…
Agree with all! And am especially with you @aunt_flo about it being ‘in’ right now. That is my exact memory of anal. It felt like we woke up one day and suddenly it was on the table for everyone ALL THE TIME. It must come from porn, right?
I would be so interested to know if this is the evolution sex has always taken throughout generations. It’s strange to think that if you spend a prolonged period of time in a monogamous relationship, or are out of the ‘sex with other people’ scene your sex could become ‘out-dated’ to to speak. Thoughts?
Hmm interesting point @earthmama, I guess if you become so engrossed in one area of sex you kind of forget about everything else? Similar to if someone was ALWAYS having vanilla sex and then became exposed to something in the kink scene, they would be like WOAH OUTRAGEOUS, as opposed to someone from the kink scene.
I don’t think anything really becomes ‘out-dated’ but the shift of what’s popular at the moment constantly changes.