Thank you for this post @aunt_flo! This gives me so much anxiety honestly. For a long time, I thought you weren’t allowed to do something like this, to be honest!! Then I learnt that consent isn’t linear and can be revoked at any time.
It took me a while to build up the courage to say anything though. But now it’s okay! I just stop the person and tell them I would like to stop now, or is it okay if we just cuddle?
Such a good post! It’s ok to stop when you’re just not feeling it anymore!
Same with @tea, this is something that took me a while to build up the courage to say anything but most of the time the other person will be understanding and they want you to be comfortable and if they’re not then they’re probably not someone you want to be spending time with in my opinion.
When taking the other person’s feeling into consideration I just try to explain that it’s not because of them but I’m just not in the mood or it’s not feeling right at the moment.