Totally agree with @goldenrose, @catdog – communication is key! I’ve been in a few long-distance relationships and keeping things intimate just doesn’t work if you don’t communicate with your partner enough! Plus it makes phone sex really awkward if communication isn’t good.
I’ve found exchanging pictures or even skype calls keeps things spicy. Like @aunt_flo mentioned, you can get sex toys that work long-distance too! I never tried any but I definitely thought about it.
@earthmama Yeah mutual masturbation!!! Something about not being able to physically touch the other person just feels so, sexy? Idk, for me, that kind aspect to phone sex was actually helpful. I feel like it made me more connected and comfortable with my body too because I was always the one in control of everything. Did you feel like that @earthmama?