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  • August 2, 2017 at 5:31 am #106440
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    August 3, 2017 at 2:21 am #111167
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    @Nurse_Nettie might be able to offer some more insight here but I think the tightening of muscles or spasms is common for women when orgasming and it can occur at very different levels of intensity. Perhaps slowing down the movement/penetration and stimulation might help in reaching orgasm and reduce her discomfort. Its a tricky one!

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    August 3, 2017 at 2:22 am #111168
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    Do ladies care to weigh in? It’s a bit outside my zone! @ElleBelle @MsBlueStreak??

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    August 3, 2017 at 3:19 am #111169
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    Thanks for tagging me in @CloakOfAsh. @curious It sounds like your friend might have experienced vaginismus. This is an involuntary (uncontrollable) spasm of vaginal muscles. It can be triggered by physical pain/discomfort or psychological cues like anxiety. Lots of women will experience it at some point in their life. If it starts to happen regularly then it’s probably worth seeing a doctor at Family Planning or a similar women’s health service for advice. Treatment is usually about relaxation techniques and practice with gentle penetration on your own. Check out this info sheet for more details 🙂

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