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What is a dental dam? How to use them and where to find them

Exploring the benefits and purpose of a dental dam Dental dams may not be trending across social media but could this lesser-known barrier method be a good option for you? What is a dental dam? A dental dam is a thin, stretchy piece of latex or polyurethane that can be […]

Been diagnosed with an STI? Now what?

If you’ve been diagnosed with a sexually transmissible infection (STI), you might be feeling a bit overwhelmed, worried or unsure about what’s next. It might seem scary but getting an STI is not the end of the world. In fact, 4 million people in Australia will get an STI at […]

Why we love lube (and you will too)

Have you ever been having sex and noticed that things were getting a bit…dry? It happens to the best of us and there’s a super easy solution. ENTER: lube. Honestly, lube does not get the love and attention it deserves. Not only can lube make sex feel more comfortable, but […]

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What is a dental dam? How to use them and where to find them

Exploring the benefits and purpose of a dental dam Dental dams may not be trending across social media but could this lesser-known barrier method be a good option for you? What is a dental dam? A dental dam is a thin, stretchy piece of latex or polyurethane that can be […]

Been diagnosed with an STI? Now what?

If you’ve been diagnosed with a sexually transmissible infection (STI), you might be feeling a bit overwhelmed, worried or unsure about what’s next. It might seem scary but getting an STI is not the end of the world. In fact, 4 million people in Australia will get an STI at […]

Why we love lube (and you will too)

Have you ever been having sex and noticed that things were getting a bit…dry? It happens to the best of us and there’s a super easy solution. ENTER: lube. Honestly, lube does not get the love and attention it deserves. Not only can lube make sex feel more comfortable, but […]

Talking to your doctor about sexual health

Does the thought of talking to your doctor about sexual health give you butterflies or send a shiver down your spine?
Don’t worry, you’re not alone. Here’s our top tips to make chatting to your doctor about sex a whole lot easier.

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August 2, 2017 at 5:31 am #106440

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August 3, 2017 at 2:21 am #111167

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@Nurse_Nettie might be able to offer some more insight here but I think the tightening of muscles or spasms is common for women when orgasming and it can occur at very different levels of intensity. Perhaps slowing down the movement/penetration and stimulation might help in reaching orgasm and reduce her discomfort. Its a tricky one!

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August 3, 2017 at 2:22 am #111168

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Do ladies care to weigh in? It’s a bit outside my zone! @ElleBelle @MsBlueStreak??

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August 3, 2017 at 3:19 am #111169

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Thanks for tagging me in @CloakOfAsh. @curious It sounds like your friend might have experienced vaginismus. This is an involuntary (uncontrollable) spasm of vaginal muscles. It can be triggered by physical pain/discomfort or psychological cues like anxiety. Lots of women will experience it at some point in their life. If it starts to happen regularly then it’s probably worth seeing a doctor at Family Planning or a similar women’s health service for advice. Treatment is usually about relaxation techniques and practice with gentle penetration on your own. Check out this info sheet for more details 🙂

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August 3, 2017 at 8:51 am #111170

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