He wants to you, but you don’t…

[walk_on_walls]

Hey people,

Here’s the situation. Your guy wants to try some Game of Thrones role play in the bedroom. A bit of rope play, making you ‘the prisoner’. You’re not that into it, but it really turns him on. How can you keep both of you happy?

[Big_Mama]

@walk_on_walls you’re giving me some great ideas  >:)

I’d probably sit and have a talk with him about it, tell him what it is exactly that makes me uncomfortable and see if we can find a way to work around it rather than just say no from the get go. It’s all about open, honest communication. If all else fails I’d probably find myself a dragon and ride off into the sunset..

[walk_on_walls]

I actually got the idea from Sexpo…they had a show on stage with Sansa wielding a sword at Jamie Lannister (???).

I like your idea of being specific about what makes you uncomfortable. It involves some self-reflection and gives the guy something to work with. An unexplained ‘no’ can be conversational dead-end, meaning the issue never gets resolved.

[Lube_Man]

i think @Big_Mama has it spot on! it is all about full consent, open communication and comfort! Compromise is a tricky thing to negotiate, but could end up in a lot of fun! 

talking about finding a dragon….have you seen the non-human sex toys on the net? alien and superhero themes for example?

[blithe]

@Lube_Man I’ve seen dolphin shaped sex toys!

[Lube_Man]

@blithe…wait…shaped as dolphin phallus or as in actually a dolphin? I keep just thinking about that viral video of the dolphin masturbating with a fish carcass…necrophiliacs…but none the less intelligent animals!

[stephaniaaaah]

@Lube_Man
a video I never want to lay my eyes on haha

[pollypower]

@Lube_Man
http://uproxx.com/webculture/alien-egg-laying-dildo-fetish/

[ElleBelle]

I think that link needs some context before I click on it @pollypower – it sounds pretty intense!

[Lube_Man]

@pollypower YASSS ovipositors! love a little jelly egg up my hoo-ha! 😀  im fairly sure that once they are…well…up…they break down! so there isnt even any awkward retrieval! 

[stephaniaaaah]

they are made of gelatin! I was wondering how you would get them out! @Lube_Man @pollypower
 

[blithe]

@Lube_Man I definitely meant it was shaped like a dolphin!

[CloakOfAsh]

Yeah those alien egg things are very intense. Ended up in a weird shop in Tokyo and the guy was giving a demo of one. Was confronting!.

[Lube_Man]

@CloakOfAsh its amazing how different countries and areas of the world are at different points of their sexual expression!

[CloakOfAsh]

100% @Lube_Man although I was very uncomfortable with the child sexualisation I experienced in Japan. People can do what they want providing its with consulting adults. 

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