He wants to you, but you don’t…

[Kit]

Well said @Big_Mama, I think open communication is important here. Talking about your fantasies with your partner is good for a relationship and helps uncover more about each other’s turn-ons, even if the original fantasy never quite happens the way they hoped! In the case of not being in to the fantasy @walk_on_walls, would you consider it as a way to talk about your own desires? Not necessarily a tit-for-tat exchange (half-hearted pun :p ) but at least a consideration that there are two of you in the relationship.

[walk_on_walls]

There’s certainly some vulnerability in sharing your fantasies, so I’d have to give him respect for sharing his. And you’re right @Kit, after he’s shared, it’s easier for me to share back and make the discussion more balanced.

[Kit]

@walk_on_walls Yay! And I so love how you said:

walk_on_walls said:

There’s certainly some vulnerability in sharing your fantasies, so I’d have to give him respect for sharing his.

Respect – for fantasies, for feelings, for hang ups – is the bee’s knees B)

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