@tea that’s an interesting question. There’s no shame in being direct!
You can say: Hey, I’ve recently been having pain during sex. Do you think that could be a sign of infection?
Then the doctor will probably ask you some questions:
- Where exactly are you feeling the pain?
- What kind of pain is it?
- How long has it been going on?
- Are there any related symptoms (bleeding after sex, for example)?
All that info will give a doctor a good idea about possible causes. STI testing may or may not be needed!
How do other people bring up genital symptoms or STIs with their GP? Do you find it awkward? How have your GPs responded? Any tips for @tea?