Yeah as a guy I must say that my general preference on most occassions is to not receive a BJ like 9 out of 10 times.
Im a very sensual person and love to have my face very close to my partners to kiss deeply.
I would get more pleasure when we kiss while she uses her hand on me to give me a HJ at the same time as oppose to her face being down giving me a BJ.
Occassionally we would get the urge to do a very brief one just for fun, mostly in the settings of a car or public restroom and places like that. So its mostly just for a giggle rather than pleasure for us.
Hope this insight helped a little, feel free to ask me any questions you may have also 😁