If I masturbate, but stop when I start to feel close to the end, and then have sex, will that make the sex quicker? You’re probably wondering why I’d want it to be quicker. Well I go to brothels, they’re legal where I live. But I can’t afford to book a session that’s longer than 30 minutes, and that’s not enough time for me.
Thanks for your question. Everyone responds differently to physical stimulation, and masturbation is no exception. Whilst some people may find that stopping masturbation just before climaxing (or cumming) makes sex shorter, it can just as easily make sex last longer for other people. It’s important to remember that there is no right or wrong, and to do what feels pleasurable for you.
If you want more specific info call 1800 451 624 between 9am-5.30pm Monday to Friday to talk with a sexual health nurse (like me). It’s confidential & free if you call from a landline. I’m also here if you need anything else.