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Home › Forums › Sex & Relationships › Ladies; how often do you receive oral sex?
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Specifically looking to ask women in long term relationships- how often does your partner go down on you? Or, if you’re the partner reading this, how often do you go down on your girlfriend/wife?
While I’m asking, approx how long would you say the giving/receiving of oral lasts each time?
Hey @explorer33, this is such a good question! I personally don’t enjoy oral so much and didn’t do it regularly with my ex, who I was with for over 5 years. I think it depends on personal preference as some people really enjoy it. I think if you and your partner know it’s something you like then it can be a fun way to mix up things in the bedroom and show your girlfriend/wife some love.
@explorer33 I second @yogigirl in saying I’m not a huuuuge fan of receiving oral, it just doesn’t do much for me. If it’s an act that you really enjoy or think is an important part of your sex life, I really encourage having a chat to your partner about how to incorporate it more frequently 🙂 it really is a “how long is a piece of string” sort of question. 🙂