Have you ever been having sex and noticed that things were getting a bit…dry? It happens to the best of us and there’s a super easy solution. ENTER: lube. Honestly, lube does not get the love and attention it deserves. Not only can lube make sex feel more comfortable, but […]
Have you ever been having sex and noticed that things were getting a bit…dry? It happens to the best of us and there’s a super easy solution. ENTER: lube. Honestly, lube does not get the love and attention it deserves. Not only can lube make sex feel more comfortable, but […]
Does the thought of talking to your doctor about sexual health give you butterflies or send a shiver down your spine?
Don’t worry, you’re not alone. Here’s our top tips to make chatting to your doctor about sex a whole lot easier.
We’re talking about sexual activity that involves your butt. Anal play can be enjoyed by anyone of any gender or orientation and can be: Putting fingers or a tongue (rimming) around/inside someone’s butt Putting a dildo or other sex toy inside someone’s butt Putting a penis inside someone’s butt There […]
Whether male or female we all have one! And just like our genitals, our anus is very sensitive and can be part of sex.
Anal sex is when an object is inserted into the anus (yours or someone else’s) during sex. It can range from just touching the outside with a finger to inserting fingers, sex toys or a penis into the anus.
The anus is a very sensitive area, and just like any other new activity, it’s best to start off slow and see if you like it.
Exploring on your own first is a safe way to try it out.
If you want to touch your partner’s anus you always need to check that it’s ok with them first.
Just like other sexual behaviours, some people find it pleasurable and some people don’t. It’s important to know that anal sex doesn’t make you gay. A lot of heterosexual people enjoy anal sex.
Anal sex is no different than having sex with any other part of your body. You need to follow some basic hygiene. Most people wouldn’t like to have sex with a dirty hand, penis, or vagina, or when they really needed to pee. It’s the same with anal sex. It’s a good idea to do a poo and wash the area before sexual activity. It’s normal to see a little bit of poo around when having anal.
Just like vaginal sex, STIs can be passed on during anal sex. So, using a condom when having anal is a very important part of staying safe. Many STIs have no symptoms, so whether you’re bi, gay, or heterosexual, if you’re having anal sex you should get tested for STIs. It’s extra important that you use lots of water-based lube too, as the anus has very little natural lubricant.
It can be hard to find good info about anal sex. So, if you have any questions feel free to drop by the ask Nurse Nettie page or call 1800 451 624 between 9:00am and 5:30pm Monday to Friday to talk with a sexual health nurse. It’s confidential and free if you call from a landline.
Lubricant, or lube, increases pleasure for girls and guys, during sex, making sex more comfortable and enjoyable. Lube is used to decrease friction, which means sex with lube won’t be dry and uncomfortable. There are three main types of lube: Water-based lube Water-based lubes are the most common. They are slippery […]
Sex toys can bring extra fun to masturbating and sex. They’re not just for using alone – they’re also a lot of fun to use with someone else too. Sex toys – the basics Sex toys come in all different shapes, colours and sizes Different toys can be used for […]
