I can confidently say loads of other people have had sex in my bed. Initially that would have disturbed me if I was the sole regular user but I rent my room out sometimes and it doesn’t bother me now, I just meticulously clean everything!
I assume a million of my friends have done it in my bed as we often let people crash here but I have definitely returned the favour while travelling. I think as long as you’re respectful it’s ok. It’s natural, just try not to make a mess and if you do – clean up!
Have been caught in a disabled toilet at a nightclub but I think they were more concerned we were doing drugs (which we weren’t). I got a lifetime ban from the club but it was never enforced. Ah to be young and free, now I get tired at 8 pm and crash out at 10:30 with a cup of chamomile!
I have a 14 year old step brother and everytime i go over to the family home Mum never knocks on his door and jsut walks straight in when she wants to ask him stuff and it kills me. I remember what it was like
@jackh UGH I remember those feelings! Gotta be stealthy – it’s not even bad stuff either I just didn’t want my parents to know what I was doing ever haha.
Did anyone else have stuff like door open rules when they had gfs/bfs at their house? I was pretty lucky I think but I saw a girl whose dad would barge in all the time yelling SPOT CHECK. Was really weird…
@CloakOfAsh – I had that door open rule in high school… and given I had mostly male friends in high school it made me feel like my parents didn’t think very highly of me. Especially as my fave drinking buddy was dating a very good friend of mine – they were okay with the two of us drinking ourselves into a stupor like every weekend, but not him being male and in my room on the few occasions I was home.
(I’ve since learned why my dad was so paranoid… he was quite the out of control teenager himself and therefore had distrust of every teenage male)