@jackh Ohhh that’s so tough. How did she eventually stop that kind of stuff when you were growing up? Or didn’t she stop? :#
@CloakOfAsh Yelling ‘spot check’ definitely ups the creepiness! I’m sure she hated that.
For sure parenting would be hard but in a way I hate the spiel that dads ‘know what teen boys are like’ – how about educating and supporting daughters not to stand for crappy behaviour and then just trusting them to sort out any boneheads? *steps down off soap box* I only once had this line from my dad @MsBlueStreak but like you it didn’t feel helpful at the time!
@CloakOfAsh that whole stubborn rebelling thing is why my parents gave up on being incredibly strict.(about everything that wasn’t the bedroom door being open when mates were visiting). They were down right control freaks, right up until they realised I was plenty capable, and also very capable of doing things just to annoy them.
Jumping back a bit to @Kit’s post about the couple having sex in the nightclub, earlier this year a couple got caught having sex on one of the beanbags at my university. Like yuck!! other people use those